In His Own Words: Married to a borderline
“Absolutely, unequivocally, as soon as the words, ‘I can tell…’ have been uttered, I know I’m in for a ride on the roller coaster of emotional insanity.”
Domestic Violence Industry
In His Own Words: Victimized by victim support advocates
“Why was a fellow student phoning me up and asking to meet at the police station? What was it that he couldn’t discuss over the phone?”
In His Own Words: Nice guy meets abusive borderline personality disordered woman, Part II
I broke down. I couldn’t even look myself in the eye anymore. I truly believed that D was right. I was a monster. “A monster who was so horribly scarred that could never be loved or be healed”, as D put it.
AVFM launches whiteribbon.org!
The White Ribbon Campaign has spread a lot of disinformation about intimate partner violence. AVFM figures change from the inside is a really good thing.
The right kind of equality
Critics of the Men’s Human Rights Movement have often tarred us as misogynistic. Ayami Tyndall looks at why, and concludes that what the critics really fear is actual equality under the law.
In His Own Words: Another beautiful sociopath
I went to comfort him. When she realised what I was about to do, she pulled him out of his walker by one arm, flung him into the air, and caught him in her other arm.
In His Own Words: Narcissistic Woman
“The first time she physically attacked me, I instinctively pushed back… I quickly realized that I would lose if I defended myself, and should just take the beating.”
Feminism and the absolution of sin
Why does feminism absolve women of their sins? Why are female rapists and abusers simply erased from existence?
In His Own Words: ABR saved my kids and saved me
“She kicked, scratched and slapped me regularly. As time passed, her physical violence escalated and became more frequent. The objects she threw at me became bigger, harder and heavier.”
In His Own Words: Surviving Crazy
“Both parents are to blame,” was said repeatedly, especially when Crazy’s behaviour was clearly wrong and indefensible. And while they were blaming “both” they were always looking at me.
