Paul Elam

ANNOUNCEMENT: Radio program off for tonight

[box type=”alert” size=”large” style=”rounded” icon=”none”] With regrets, there will be no AVfM Radio Program tonight. Manuel Dexter and I have been immersed in a project of considerable size for the past several days, and it simply did not allow sufficient time for show prep.  My apologies to all listeners for the late notice. I was …

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The Directionless MRM

It certainly becomes a challenge to draw the fine line between what is attacking the chivalrous norm and what is attacking women. The two are so interwoven and enmeshed that a cut to one will make the other bleed. Walking on eggshells, given that reality, won’t help.

Farewell, R.D.

What he did was stay sober, work like a dog, save money and deprive himself even the smallest pleasures in life, much less the big stuff. He lived in a house that was in disrepair, obsessively turning off lights, even eating only the cheapest food he could find.

A Letter to Traditional Women Revisited

But where it concerns activism, men’s best interest and the voice that emanates from this forum, it is my not so humble opinion that any woman who likes “real” men who spend their days carrying a load she doesn’t feel obligated to share is no friend to the men and boys in this culture who now find themselves in such desperate trouble.