In His Own Words: Narcissistic Woman
It’s day 19 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for Men and Boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Falling in love with an abusive, personality disordered woman is like living a fairy tale in reverse.
It’s day 19 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for Men and Boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. Falling in love with an abusive, personality disordered woman is like living a fairy tale in reverse.
“She kicked, scratched and slapped me regularly. As time passed, her physical violence escalated and became more frequent. The objects she threw at me became bigger, harder and heavier.”
“When I met her, Crazy had two kids to two separate fathers. She assured me that she was on the pill because the last thing she needed was yet another child to yet another father.”
“My mom used to go on beating frenzies and actually beat some of my friends, too. I stopped playing little league sports because I got tired of looking at the bench and seeing her rolling in the dirt with some other parent.”
“Our kitchen was classic 1970s avocado green. Blood was everywhere, the floors, the refrigerator, the phone, the counters. Red on green makes black. I was 7-years old. I watched them put my Dad in the back of the ambulance. The neighbors, in bathrobes and pajamas, had lined the block.”
“I remember my father ducking down the basement stairs as my mother launched a coffee cup through the window of the kitchen door.”
The White Knight impulse: most men seem to have it. Sometimes, it might even be healthy. Sometimes. But don’t count on it. Domestic Violence Awareness Month continues.
It’s day 12 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for Men and Boys, a cooperative effort between DAHMW, Shrink4Men and A Voice for Men. Today’s In His Own Words is a real time cry for help.
Today’s In His Own Words is yet another tale of what can happen when a lonely, vulnerable man ignores his better judgment and gets involved with an abusive, toxic woman who, in this case, was also a raging drug addict and violent criminal.
Domestic Violence Awareness: Your partner just enjoys making sex recordings with you. Or so you think. But what’s really being done with those recordings? Careful about the assumptions you make.