IHOW: Diary of a man married to an alcoholic borderline
A few slices of history in a man’s life spent living with a borderline personality disordered alcoholic of a wife. In His Own Words, Day 6
Relationships
The “fairy tale” myth of relationships: Both false and destructive
What do feminism and fairy tales have in common? Author Jeb Kinnison reflects on the scholarship of Peter Wright and the implications for dismantling the “Fairy Tale” desires of the modern feminist princess.
Love’s Bitter Rebuke – Over Generations
Whenever you encounter a damaged adult who is racked by deep insecurity, or who is emotionally destructive or physically or sexually violent, you are almost certainly looking at a battered or abused child who has simply grown up. Andy Thomas explains.
In His Own Words: Reflections at the end of an abusive marriage
It’s day 30 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month for Men and Boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. “TI85″ reflects upon his marriage, his behavior and his soon-to-be ex’s behavior as he begins the divorce process.
In His Own Words: FUBAR
It’s day 29 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month 2013 for men and boys, the invisible victims of domestic violence. “Christopher” is married to an abusive alcoholic woman whom he suspects has borderline personality disorder. Maybe it was all that bat shit crazy that gave it away.
In His Own Words: Sex, lies and videotape
Domestic Violence Awareness: Your partner just enjoys making sex recordings with you. Or so you think. But what’s really being done with those recordings? Careful about the assumptions you make.
MGTOW: 12th century style
Perhaps it is that each age of man must discover the truths about women and love for itself. Over 800 years ago, the spread of courtly love and proto-feminism caused a writer to warn his fellows.
Sex and attachment
Why do we fall in love? Our analysis of the issues surrounding Men Going Their Own Way continues with Peter Wright’s overview into the nature of attachment and why humans are so fond of each other. The science about attachment that he reveals may surprise you and this historical context of just why we believe what we believe about men’s sexuality will definitely enlighten.
Panthers only: others need not apply
A “Jaguar” is supposed to be an older woman who is independent, stands on her own, and expects nothing from men except a good time and maybe an equal partnership. Do you think you find many of those for real at places like Jezebel, or just self-entitled bitches who pretend to be like that?[Illustration by Europa Phoenix]
Love and Friendship
Scholar and Man Going His Own Way Peter Wright has a look at people’s ideas about love and marriage throughout history, and concludes that much of what we today call “romance” is a historical aberration starting in the middle ages with the concept of courtly love and the image of white knights on bended knee, begging for a token from their Lady.
