As a gay man and a haute couturier, I had always loved to be surrounded by the most beautiful of women and revelled in making them gorgeous creations which made them feel confident and powerful. As a nightclub doorman, I have learned to despise women and fear their proximity for fear of physical attack or false allegations of sexual assault. I am a modern misogynist, and the females of my species made me this way. This is my story:
All though I grew up in a family mostly comprised of domineering women, It all started in 2001 when I first opened my design studio and atelier. It was here where I created the most gorgeous gowns for the socialites of Brighton in the UK. My customers were amazing! The nicest of women who would be so humbled that I was going to make them the gowns of their dreams for their most special occasions. I was absolutely outrageous and lovely with them all, and they were all fabulous right back.
As a new designer, funds were tight, and an extra income would have come in handy. On the advice of a female friend, I acquired my door supervisors licence and began working as a doorman in nightclubs. Suddenly, by the same class of woman who had been celebrating my skill and talent as a fashion designer, I was being treated like some dumb heterosexual club bouncer who was too stupid to get a decent job and who was there to be manipulated and seduced if possible. Having never had issues with women whatsoever beforehand, I found myself being physically assaulted by condescending and arrogant women. Granted, the physical assaults didn’t happen immediately. Only once their feminine wiles ceased to sway me in my decision on eviction did they get violent. I have been attacked by groups of women on several occasions because one of the group was disruptive and was being dealt with. I have been reported to and interviewed by police countless times (three of them being for false allegations of sexual assault) and have heard women repeatedly lie about me knowing that they can rely on their hetero-femme privilege to have police turn a blind eye to their sexist behaviour.
I have had one woman take me to court for having broken her arm while evicting her from a nightclub. Fortunately, security footage shown in court clearly showed myself forcibly removing the unruly woman from the bar and place her on the pavement outside of the venue, only to show her taking a running drop kick at me once I had returned to my position. Next frame shows me stepping out of her way and the woman smashing into the wall and breaking her arm. Had it not been for security footage, I would have had my life ruined by a hideous, deceitful woman who in her words said to me ‘I’m not having a man do this to me! I’m going to ruin your life.’
These are some of the dangers men like myself face on a daily basis from the modern feminist woman. In reality, it’s not just the modern woman who behaves in such a manner and exhibits little respect for men. Last year I was assaulted by a woman after hours in a bar I was providing security for. The woman in question was denied permission to go out for a cigarette after the bar was closed and people were finishing drinks. This woman punched me in the face full on and knocked me to the ground permanently damaging my kneecap. Again, police refused to charge her with assaulting me for fear of giving the woman a criminal record.
I later had a video chat with my mother and recounted the assault to her. Thank god I saw her face when she began to laugh about what I had told her. I asked her why she was laughing? She replied ‘well, it is kind of funny don’t you think?’ I certainly gave my mother a dressing down! I explained to her exactly what hetero-femme privilege was. I explained to her that as a gay man, I do not play a part in the hetero male/female power battle of the sexes. As a gay male, I have never played any part in the alleged oppression of women, and I see no reason I should ever have to be assaulted because feminists refuse to take direction from men in a position of authority. These twisted views on male/female power struggle are passed down from generation to generation. My mother now knows to think carefully before she decides to force her female privilege onto a gay man who couldn’t care less about the perceived female power struggle.
I mentioned earlier that I have been reported to the police for sexual assault against women. The reality is that rape and unprovoked assault against women by men is a rarity in society. Just recently here where I live, a local gay bar had a list of complaints to the police published in the local paper:
February 20: Woman reports waking in toilets to find male sexually assaulting her.
June 8: Woman reports she was assaulted by door staff. Police find she was lawfully ejected.
September 28: Woman claims to have been assaulted by door staff – she was lawfully ejected.
October 16: Woman smashes glass panel.
November 5: Woman physically threatens drinker.
January 19: Woman reports waking in bed with a man after consuming alcohol and an illegal drug at the pub.
February 8: Woman claims she was assaulted by door supervisor. She was lawfully ejected.
March 10: Woman falls down steps and claims to have been sexually assaulted. She later said there was no sexual contact.
March 29: Woman claims she was approached by a man in the pub before being sexually assaulted.
April 8: Woman claims her drink was spiked.
April 28: Woman claims she was sexually assaulted after meeting a man in the pub.
May 22: Woman claims she was threatened with a knife. Later found she started the confrontation and no weapon was involved.
July 25: Man assaulted a woman in The Old Steine after having been in the pub.
This clearly illustrates the reality of the dangers men face daily with dishonest and vindictive women. These false allegations of assault waste the time of the men accused and spent tax dollars through wasted police time. All women who lie about men to the police need to receive equal punishment to the sentence the man would have received. Women would think twice about lying about a man assaulting her if there were going to be an equally heavy penalty to pay if she is caught lying, I believe. The argument that fear of retribution would frighten women off reporting actual assaults doesn’t bear any weight against men being unjustly dragged before the courts senselessly.
Females lie about physical and sexual assault committed by men regularly. This is illustrated by police statistics showing that only 5.7% of all rape cases result in a conviction. As a gay man working in the security industry, of the extensive list of accusations of physical and sexual assault women, have made to the police about myself, 100% of the allegations women have made against me have been false. I mean really, I would be more likely to fix a woman’s hair and make-up than to assault sexually her while I am at work in a nightclub! Mine has certainly not been an isolated case. I have seen male friends lives destroyed by random women who have lied to police upon removal of a venue for the reason of being aggressive to others. Hetero-femme privilege allows women to destroy men without fear of punishment. Alcohol consumption is used as a valid reason as to why a woman should be excused for her bad choices and a male equally under the influence should finish in jail for a woman’s bad choice.
The television series Quantico (series 1 episode 10) contains a prime example of the rampant Hetero-femme privilege seen on television. A female cadet recruit claims she was in an abusive relationship that made her feel afraid while admitting that her ex never physically hurt her. Because she wanted to ensure her ex could not see their child, she put on a fake scar behind her ear and lied about her ex hurting her physically to a judge in order for the cadet to manipulate a verdict in her favour. She gained custody and then abandoned her child to attend the Quantico recruit programme. The team instructor for Quantico exonerated the woman of her actions. How can a woman lying to the court about a physically abusive partner ever be condoned as acceptable and honourable behaviour? This is a mainstream television show telling girls it’s OK to lie to police about men physically hurting them if it is a means to get what they want.
We are bombarded with images of female violence with women slapping and punching men in ads and video. Female against male violence has become the norm. The recent Irish documentary ‘The Rise Of Female Violence‘ informs us just how violent female behaviour has become. Females refuse to accept responsibility for male retaliation to humiliation, degradation and violent attacks that females heap upon them. Why in the world do women believe that a man should never hit back? Fortunately, we gays have our unwritten code: If a woman hits a gay man, she gets hit right back till she stops.
I watched a documentary about the women left behind in the life of Gary Ridgway, the Green River Killer. At a certain point in the film, the women in his life were shown a video of Gary Ridgway talking about his motivation for killing women. Obviously, he was not all there from the start, but he did reveal that his hatred for women began as a young boy due to all of the domineering women in his life. He even confessed to leaving a family Christmas briefly to go out and kill a hooker to help him alleviate the irritation of the constant nagging from the women in attendance. I sat dumbfounded watching as all the women could comment on was that Gary Ridgway showed no remorse for what he had done. Not one of the women at all showed any remorse themselves by saying ‘Oh my God!!! What did we do to him to make him do those things?’ Or ‘Had we not nagged him continuously that Xmas, maybe that poor women went out to kill would still be alive.’ The utter refusal to accept even a temporary role even when told so by the criminal himself was incredulous! I was just shocked by the female refusal to own that their nagging and domineering behaviour fed into his twisted perversion.
Even female sex comic Amy Schumer understands everybody is tired of listening to women. ‘I think people hate women,” she said. “I don’t think they want to hear a woman talk for too long.’ (huff post-Amy Schumer: ‘I Think People Hate Women’ May 27, 2015 | Updated May 28, 2015).
It’s time women like Senator Claire McCaskill kindly ‘Shut The Hell Up!‘ and stop nagging the men of the world. We don’t care what she has to say. Instead of her worrying about men telling women what to do with their bodies, the women in question should behave responsibly with their bodies and stop murdering viable babies because they are too young or lazy to raise them! Almost 1,360, 000,000 abortions have been performed globally since 1980. That’s one billion, 360 million viable human lives snuffed out because ‘the timing was wrong.’ That figure equates to almost one-quarter of the planet’s population now!!! I would much rather see the lives of a few careless women be inconvenienced for a few years of child rearing than a billion dead babies in a heap. I’m sure I have a billion lost souls who would agree wholeheartedly with me.
You would never guess that I was once a huge supporter of women. This is what feminism has done to me =(