Bernard Chapin once said in one of his videos that we have been asking women the same question for years.
“Are you equal, or are you special?”
And they have answered, “Yes!”
I thought of this recently as I went through some of the comments here and at places like reddit, where some of these articles are posted.
Chapin was spot on in his analysis, and it speaks to why some of my writings are not just about injustices against men or the misandry that is pervasive throughout western culture, but about the darker side of the western women- the lot of them.
Yes, I am talking in generalizations; in my mind generalizations that hold up impeccably to scrutiny and fit the common experience of western men to a T.
And that experience, as it has been related to me by many men over the past several years is consistent.
Western women are:
- Grossly immature
- Overly Entitled
- Self centered
- Morally deficient
- And Indisputably Fucking Dangerous.
NAWALT, if you insist.
I am not citing this list of bullet points to make a case of proving their accuracy. Some of that has been addressed in articles that have already been posted, and some are yet to come.
The point here is to talk about why we are talking about these things, and why we need to.
In my opinion it certainly isn’t just for the purpose of gratuitously bashing women. In fact, I quite honestly hold men more culpable in this mess than I do women, for it is men that are the chief enablers of these, now two generations of spoiled brats disguised as women that we are dealing with.
For every woman whining about a mythological pay gap or who lives in denial of the protections and provisions afforded them by the patriarchy they so love to malign, there is at least one man cheering her on and joining in the attempts to shame anyone who disagrees with her.
Men either do this because they are blind, ignorant, full of false and misguided masculine brio, or so helplessly addicted to women’s approval that a sideways look from one would cause them to panic. But one thing for sure, if men were not enabling this, it would not be happening.
And that is, of course, why we need to talk about these things in a men’s forum.
It is clear that women need to be depedestalized. And I don’t mean that we need to depedestalize them in an attempt to change them. We don’t need to convince them how fucked up they are or otherwise. What we need, as a culture of men, is to have them firmly depedestalized in our minds. And we need to create environments where knocking women off that pedestal is not just breaking taboo, but the socially acceptable norm. We should welcome other men to consider taking their own swing at knocking the damned thing over.
Let me give you an example. I recently got a PM at YouTube that said the following.
“Man, when I first started watching your videos I thought you were really too rough on women. But now I am just surprised that I didn’t see all this stuff sooner. I can‘t believe I was in that much denial.”
I think what was getting in this man’s way was the mentality that is the product of the feminist-chivalry complex. Through the unholy marriage of feminist supremacy with the blind protectionism of chivalry we have put women in the position of being absolutely untouchable in this culture, and put everyone in a position to keep their mouths shut about it.
That feminist-chivalrist marriage is a perfect one. It is more and more apparent that we cannot tell where one ends and the other begins. They have become the intertwined serpents of ill fate in the New World Gender Order.
The result? There is literally no such thing as a fair critique anything that has to do with the sexes. And especially where discussing the dark feminine is concerned. The feminists regard it as misogyny and the chivalrists regard it being less than a real man. Their language, shaming tactics included, has become indistinguishable.
I get a chuckle every time I see a chivalrist write that he hates feminism as much as anyone, and then goes on to berate MRA’s with the same exact verbiage as you would see from a fembot.
But while it may be funny, it is quite serious. The compulsory silence mandated by combination of chivalry and feminism isn‘t just a gag order, it extends into the very consciousness of society. It adds further proof to the idea that if you can control what people say, what ideas they can express, you can also control how they act, and think.
And it has been so effective at that, that we are a culture that cannot even face and answer a most compelling truth.
You cannot pursue equality while half the population maintains a status so privileged that you cannot even talk about them honestly.
Fortunately, the solution to this is simple. All we need to do is speak the truth. And the truth is easy. We live so many outrageous lies about women that breaking myths about them is like shooting fish in a barrel.
What we lack are sufficient numbers, but as you know, that is changing.
Of course, I am not talking about ranting about what bitches and ho’s women are. It may be good venting, but it is poor education. And it doesn‘t help break the myths in the minds of anyone on the fence.
More importantly, simply fulminating about women rarely takes us to the important subject of male enabling. It distracts us from some other really important facts.
Men in western culture are:
- Blindly protective
- Pussy Whipped
- Dishonest- especially with and about women
- And Indisputably Fucking Dangerous
In short, of the lists of problems shown by men and women, one reads like a list of bad traits in children, the other reads like bad traits in parents. I am sure you can figure who belongs to which list.
And we better be able to figure it out. A society comprised of spoiled children and weak adults isn’t going to find any answers any time soon. For this to change, women need to grow up, and men need to spine up.
When women are forced to act like adults, and men are forced to quit coddling them like children, we might just make something good happen.
Needless to say, in doing this we are kind of taking on the world.
But what the hell, it’s the only world we have. We might as well try to make it better.